When it comes to thinking about how we think about money, I love the scarcity/abundance framework. My sessions are expensive. I know this. And yet, I’m continually amazed by clients, making $120K per year who enthusiastically decide that working with me is worth the investment. And then there are people making $750K who tell me […]
Scarcity or Abundance: What’s Your Money Mindset? Read More »
Hello, Based on your response to my last newsletter, this subject is resonating with many of you, even (especially?) those in happy marriages. With a divorce rate of 40%, and gray divorce (divorce over 50) on the incline, everyone knows someone… And there’s something special about divorce. I mean, on the one hand it sucks
Is Divorce a Second Puberty? Read More »
I’ve been thinking about this newsletter for months. Maybe years. And today is the day imma come out and say it. Because there are THREE articles I’ve read over the last year that are creating a perfect truth storm. Here we go. ONE: My 53-year-old college roommate sent me this article yesterday about a 53-year-old woman
The Unexpected Joy of Being a Woman Over 50 Read More »
Come on in, the water’s warm. And it’s damn hot outside anyway.
Pre-summer check in / Allison updates Read More »
My twin sons have their b’nai mitzvah this weekend. This is a rite of passage for Jewish teens, where they are invited to lead their congregation, read from the torah, and speak words of insight based on study and personal values / beliefs. We call this a D’var torah, it’s also known as a sermon.
Rites of Passage: What’s your next one? Read More »
Today is my birthday and I’ll give you a present if I want to!! As mentioned in my last newsletter, at this very moment I’m doing breathwork training in New Mexico. What’s breathwork you’re wondering? It’s a trip. And I mean that literally. The breather sits on the floor or massage table, comfortably on a
My Birthday Present to YOU! Read More »
Over the last few months, the northeastern US has seen record snow with bomb cyclones, Snomageddon and lots and lots of shoveling. But not this week! No. This week the magic happened. We’re enjoying a baby end-of-winter heat wave, which just so happened to coincide with daylight savings. Nature is saying you’re welcome and I’m showing
Nothing is Better than the First Few Days of Spring Read More »
Happy New Year, y’all. I hope you enjoyed a few moments of pause and insight, and are ready to get after it. And if that was not your path this holiday, read on…I have some tools here for you that may help with the insights, reflection and plan for what comes next. But first, I’d
A 2026 Plan and How to Not Suck It Up. Read More »
I like words. A lot. I like slang words and phrases (grrrrl?), even words that are not words at all but convey oh-so-much (mmm-hmmmm?). You feel me? I know you do. Language grows and evolves and I’ve got back stage passes to that show. I’d like to share two new phrases that have significantly improved
2 must-say phrases you’re gonna love. Read More »